Wanted peace of mind

Hello,..From the beginning i don't have peace in my mind.I'd always think my obligation as a good helper and as a good working student and also a good daughter that can help to my parents a little financial.I think always how we can survived our financial problem and health problem.Is not that I'd always think also about our staying faraway to my hubby if when we can meet again.I don't know about this visa why is it's very long time processing!Sometimes i cry and maybe i will become crazy this situation.And also my hubby he thinks about this long time processing he want to get angry but we have no choice.He was called again this morning the immigration of Oslo Norway then they are saying they got the application sent from the police there town of my hubby but not already pass to the department of Family Reunification.So he want to call this coming the end of this week to know if they pass the application to the department.He want to push it because they will pass also to the embassy of Manila.So very long time processing really and we are not sure what is the result about this..But hubby think positive we are legally married so no more reason to deny again..We hope so we will see then if the result is come and i will wait so much long long time...